WHAT GIRLS LOOK FOR IN A GUY
Most guys would think girls are interested in sex only well that is most definitely not the case. It has been proved many times that the way a girl thinks is different from the way a guy thinks. Let me enlighten you from a woman’s point of view what they need from a guy.
1. First of all we would love it if you guys would be HONEST. Girls are looking for guys who are honest. If you lie she wouldn’t be able to trust you again. A relationship without trust is really nothing. It is awfully hard to remeber your lies and she will catch you!
2. A SENSE OF HUMOR is an important asset. Nobody wants a boring guy who doesn’t know how to have fun. Most girls love a good laugh so, yes being funny is a definite plus. But if you are normally dry practice a technique that suites your personality. Watch and learn from other guys and then practice this with that special girl. You can't always be the quick fire guy, but having a funny story in your back pocket might help break an uncomfortable silence when you need it.
3. EYE CONTACT is really important so that the girl knows that it is her that you want. Don't be distracted by others walking by. Concentration on the person you are talking to gives the impression you are listening and more importantly care not to miss anything. She will catch your gaze and hope that you will remember what color her eyes are later!
4. A friendly SMILE makes you more approachable and inviting. She will defiantly smile back if she is also interested.
5. Every guy has a unique PERSONALITY so, yes that’s also something girls look for in a guy.
6. Girls love guys who are CONFIDENT. Even if you are shy don’t let her know it. Always keep eye contact and be steady while avoiding fidgeting. Don’t let your nervousness get the better of you. Please work on shyness if you are shy guy because most girls are very uncomfortable with a guy who is confused most of the time. You must be able to make decisions and be very outspoken.
7. MATURITY is very important to most girls. That is the reason why many girls date older guys for that exact reason. Responsibility is also an essential factor. What may be funny when you talk with the guys could be totally embarrassing to her. Girls would find a guy getting drunk and been over loud a complete put off. But it is great to be fun loving and caring.
8. SENSITIVTY is another great sentiment every girl dreams off. So those guys who are sensitive, there is nothing wrong in hurting or letting her know if you are. Girls would love to have a shoulder to cry on from time to time, so why not let that be yours? Girls hate it when a guy acts macho or always boasts while simple sensitive guy is a turn on for them. If you are sensitive to her feelings she would also do the same for you.
9. Finally it’s the LOOKS which is about how you carry yourself. Good looks and a sexy body goes with a good personality. Most guys think if they look good then they would get any girl but that’s just not true because girls still want to be understood and not be taken for granted. Being conceited wont get you anywhere with girls. Girls hate the idea of guys bragging on about how much they have. You can show these things by simply being well groomed and nicely dressed. Don't wear shorts and a sweater to a club when it is 30 degrees outside - got it?
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