How to Give a Woman an Orgasm

Now, of course, all women are different and so are all men for that matter, but this one tip should work on almost everyone. Specifically a tip for men to use on their female partner, this is a sex tip you will be using time and time again.

The first thing to understand is something you have heard before. Giving a woman an orgasm takes time. The chemicals within a woman's body that assist is relaxing muscles and heightening pleasures are bound by emotional responses. So not only is it things like carrying about someone, but purely how comfortable they feel with what you are doing to them and how confident they are that they will reach that heightened levels to even give them a chance to orgasm.

So step one, take your time. You will want to make sure you can walk and chew gum at the same time. I am not going to get into anything that got you in bed in the first place, let's assume you can get there on your own. However, before performing this particular technique, arousing your partner is first and foremost. Kissing her softly in the places you know she likes is the best way to get things going. These steps will help the technique work much more effectively.

What you are trying to do is to relax the muscles surrounding and inside the vagina. The roof of the vagina consists of a ridge of small grooves that tentalize a woman as the penis goes back and forth. You will be working that area specifically. Let me take a quick moment to say here that you don't want to be perceived as if you are performing an exam. So if you start to get the bad vibe, quit and regroup another time.

Start by inserting a finger inside the vagina. You will want to be in a position where you can insert your finger in far enough and be able to flex it as if you were performing a "come here" motion. Most commonly this would be your pointer finger. Your palm would be facing upward and your pointing finger would be flexing from the outstretched position bending inward toward the palm as if you were motioning for someone to come toward you.

The goal is to be stroking very gently the ridge on the roof of the vagina. You should eventually begin to feel the grooves a bit easier as she gets excited. Continue to master your technique and explore with your finger to learn the exact locations where she gets most excited.

Over time you will know exactly where the spots are. Kissing the surrounding area on her belly and inner thighs can only help your cause. It may even be worth your while to take her completely to orgasm this way at least once. It will build the confidence in her that you can take her there and future sexual encounters will already have the foundation and create the scenario she needs to begin with.

We aren't finished quite yet. Once you know how deep these areas are with your partner (if may differ slightly from partner to partner) you can use more than just for finger. That's right, it now gets fun. Now using the above technique as foreplay, insert your penis and insert it only the distance where you believe this ridge to begin. Now, on your next stroke, lower your hips so that the next thrust points the head of your penis to the roof of the vagina.

If you have performed this correctly, you should feel the head of your penis brush the grooves as you pull outward. After a few straight penetrations, perform this upward motion again. With plenty of practice (this is what makes sex great right) you will be able to control the motion with seemless transition as easily as you can with your finger.

This technique should do wonders for improving the chances of bringing your woman to orgasm. The only warning, if you can call it a warning, is that this also causes a bit more friction to the man's penis. So be careful not to ejaculate too soon. This will certainly lessen the chances she will make it to full orgasm. For a few tips on how to prolong your erection, you can train yourself for longer lasting erections.

Have fun!